If someone is behaving like this?

This one day my boyfriend asked me advice on something, and i gave him my best advice, he loved it. Then I complimented on his photo id.. then he digs deeper as if there was a deeper meaning to me complementing on it. It turns into a 30 minute conversation abuot his ';looks'; and I simply say it was about ';energy'; his energy in that photo back then is really beautiful, but he for some reason gets sad. Then I try to change the subject and he wont budge, then I try to talk abuot it with him, about his mood, saying ';whats wrong, we should talk about it'; he mumbles and i cant hear so I say ';what? I cant hear you when you are talking so low'; then he waves his hand and says never mind.

Then he spends 4 hours feeling that way.. then I keep trying to be happy and poke at him in a funny way like how we play, and he doesn't budge, then I say '; you know you should take this as a sign, if you let something so small ruin your entire day then what you want isnt worth it, plus you are bumming me out';

He stays quiet. Then he gets aggressive from time to time.. a book fell and he kicks it all the way across the parking lot and ofcourse i have to go and pick it up. Then as he was the driver he starts driving recklessly, swaying the car with hard turns and speeding up then slowing down and several cars had to change lanes fast and stop before they enter because he speeds up. Then I say '; hey man I value my life and its really freaking me out that you are driving crazy and you are putting other peoples lives around you in danger, just let it go already';

He says he wishes that I could make him feel better... and tries putting his act of bad emotions on me..

then I said ';but earlier you said I did a good job';

he stays quiet.

Then later he says the same damn thing. I just let it go. He wont budge. Then at his house (finally after all the driving ended) he gets happy by his own means by walking his dog.

I was like soooo frustrated that I kept trying to talk some sense into him yet he gets all better by walking his dog and meditating. All of a sudden he is a changed man and happy?

What is the deal here, what am I dealing with? This isnt the first time this has happened with so-called changes of a better person.

Is he bipolar or something?If someone is behaving like this?
Sounds like mood swings... only you know how bad it is. But... if HE kicks a book across the parking lot, why do YOU have to pick it up?



Moody people manipulate us into all sorts of crazy things. I think you are right break it off and suggest he seek help. There is no reason for you to have to put up with this kind of behavior.If someone is behaving like this?
Maybe hes insecure about his looks? since you said it was his enegry that made the picture look beautiful and that might have upset him because he wanted it to be about looks.
If he doesn't want to talk about it, you shouldn't push it. The easiest way to cheer a person up is to change the subject and make him laugh. There is the possibility that he's bipolar, though.
sounds like either bipolarism or drug abuse that you do not know about

If you love yourself you will get out of there fast. Youre wrong if you think youre gonna fix him with extra attention or love (You'll only get the f ck you payback, meaning the more you give the more he will be like, fck you)



as you go along in life and love you will realize how important TIME is.



If youre spending a lot of time being hurt then it is time to go.
Um.... maybe he's feeling a bit antisocial. Leave off a day or two.... Or dump him. It does look like he's bipolar.
You need to tell him that you are really worried about him. I saw that he said he wants you to make him happy. Tell him you can, you just need to talk about it. And it doesn't have to be about what's making him act this way, just open up to him, let him know you're there for him and you'll be glad to hear him speak his mind. If he's mumbling and you can't understand, try to look him in the eye while he's talking and don't interrupt him saying ';what?';. If he waves something off, just ask him if he's sure, say you are willing to listen. Just stuff like that. I hope this helps!
It is possible he is BiPolar. If this is constant behavior he should consult with a professional - it sounds as though something may have happened to him around the time that picture was taken and it has left some unresolved issues.



BiPolar usually involves depression and you cannot CHEER someone up who is depressed by acting silly, or cracking jokes etc. Additionally, YOU cannot MAKE him happy, he has to be happy within himself, or it will not matter who he is with he will never ';feel happy';. We are each responsible for our own happiness, then we share that with the one we love, which makes us happy together.



If he does not seek counseling or an evaluation his behavior may become worse and his moods even more erratic. For your own safety you need to then decide if you want to continue the relationship.



Please know that BiPolar can be managed with the appropriate medications, but it takes time and if you are willing to continue in the relationship you have to become knowledgeable about the disorder so that you will know if he is off his meds or if they are simply not working so as to avoid a crisis situation.



Here are a couple of sites to help you learn more.

http://www.bipolarhappens.com/

http://www.dbsalliance.org



Best of luck to you.
hmm. From what I read, your boyfriend seems a bit...';unstable';. I'd definantly watch his behavior for a few days. If this behavior persists, then I'd talk to him about it or if not just leave him. That type of behavior will continue to frustrate you until you do something about it. I'm definantly worried about the wreakless driving you mentioned... Hope this helps you!
You are dealing with a manic depressive schizophrenic who needs professional care.