Thursday, September 22, 2011

My boyfriend might be cheating.?

so, last night my boyfriend told me that he couldn't have dinner with me because he was working later than usual. i told him it was alright and that we could plan something maybe friday or saturday (since we are both off work)

so instead of slaving in the kitchen for one i thought i would go out and get something.

as i drove downtown to one of my favorite thai restaurants i saw my boyfriends BMW two lanes over and he was in the car with another man. JUST my luck right? i thousand things immediately flooded my mind. i thought i should change lanes and get right behind him and honk the hell out of my horn..or maybe i would call the asshole and catch him in the act.

but i stopped myself.



i don't want to seem too clingy and pathetic but i don't know how to confront him about it ):

i need help.My boyfriend might be cheating.?
you had the opportunity to find out if your suspicion was true or not and you blew it. he may make up any excuse once you confront him but you probably should .otherwise hire an investigator to follow him .you might find what you fear.



good luckMy boyfriend might be cheating.?
be blunt. be forward. be YOU. you're mad right? so what? let it be known. if he really liked you he wouldn't be alone in the car with another man. if you think he's cheating...he probably is. everyone gets gut feelings. stick with them. you deserve to be in a stress free relationship.
It COULD be that he was having a drink with a business partner. If you smell cologne on him or if he acts funny, maybe ask him.
All i can suggest is to be vague about asking him how work went that night. Don't let him know that ur on to him. See how he is the next week or so. Is his behavior different at home? Any changes lately that might make sense now? It could have been innocent, but keep an eye on him. If he knows ur suspicious then he'll be more careful. If he is up to something you will catch him.
I would ask him. I would tell him what I saw, and see what his explanation is.



Contradictions, lies, are something that I also would be weary of.. If he can b.s. you, then that's not cool.



If he has a legitimate reason, then that's a different case.



Hope it was innocent though.

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